Choosing The Right Bridal Petticoat

You have bought your wedding gown and now you are told you need a bridal petticoat to go under your wedding dress. Now several questions go through your mind:

  • Do you really need a petticoat?
  • Can you go without one?
  • Should I choose a crinoline bridal slip or hoop slip?
  • How wide should it be?

 Let's see if I can sort this out for you.

Do You Really Need A Bridal Petticoat?

Do you really need a bridal slip if you have one built into the gown?" The answer is... Maybe.

Most wedding gowns, especially the high end designers, have a built-in crinoline petticoat. Some attached slips are full enough without needing an additional bridal petticoat.

How do you determine if the attached slip is enough?

  • When trying on a wedding gown at the bridal salon, try your bridal gown on with a petticoat and then without one.
  • If your dress doesn't look any better to you with the slip... then you don't need another slip.

Most wedding dresses will look better with an additional slip. Here are some tips that will help you know whether you need a wedding dress slip. When you have your dress on without the bridal petticoat under it, you need a slip.

When A Bridal Petticoat Will Help

  • If your underwear and/or bottom of a longline strapless bra shows through. A slip will conceal this.
  • If it looks like the skirt of your gown is pleating more than you remember the designer's catalog picture, then you need a slip if that isn't the look you want.
  • If your dress is caving in or creasing in the skirt center front.
  • If your gown hemline should be smooth and flat, but it has folds and pleats in it.
  • If when you walk you feel the gown or the wedding dress crinoline slip caving between your legs. This will make your dress skirt crease in the center front.
  • If you have a ball gown and you want that very full bouffant look to your gown, to hold its shape.

If none of these things apply... then you don't need a bridal petticoat. But it you feel you do, here are some tips on how to choose one.

How To Choose A Crinoline Net Petticoat

Full a-line bridal slipVery full a-line bridal petticoat slip

Generally, petticoat slips are made of crinoline net which is a very stiff netting that has tiers of gathered ruffles to make it full. It consists of:

  • Usually a lining layer next to your legs and a liner covering the net, but not always.
  • The liner can have a ruffle or more in it to give more fullness to the slip at the hem.
  • Some even have a hoop running at the hem to help it hold it's shape.

How do you choose the right width slip to go under the wedding dress?

It depends on how wide your wedding gown is. If you are in a bridal shop the sales person will usually pick the right one you need. You can try it on and then decide if you want something smaller or bigger or none at all.

But say, you decide that you want to order one online because the bridal shop slip is to expensive. Or perhaps you ordered your wedding dress online and now you need to order a slip as well. How do you determine which one to purchase?

How Wide Of A Bridal Slip Should You Get?

To determine how wide of a bridal petticoat you need:

  1. Measure the bottom of your dress.
  2. Measure the front hem from side seam to side seam.
  3. Double that measurement. That will tell you approximately what circumference of slip you need. (ex. 85" x 2 = 170" circumference of the slip needed.)

Now if your gown has a built in slip and you only need a little extra width, then you can't go exactly by the measurement. You should get a slip a little smaller in width circumference.

If your wedding gown doesn't have a bridal petticoat built in, you would have to get a much fuller slip to achieve the right look you want. For a ball gown, princess wedding dress you usually will need a mega full slip if your gown doesn't have a slip attached.

"Actually... It is good that wedding dress designers don't add the full amount of petticoat slip to the gown that it needs? Why? Because it would make the gown too heavy. A heavy bridal gown will slide down, if it is a strapless gown, and a gown with straps or sleeves, will cause you discomfort because you will feel the weight on your shoulders."

Hoop Slips - Best To Use When...

3 bone hoop bridal slip3 Bone Hoop Bridal Slip

Hoop slips hold a definite shape. Crinoline slips tend to settle down and not pouf out as much after wearing them awhile. Here are some things to consider:

  • Hoops are made with one to six rows of bones in them.
  • The higher the bones start near the waist, the more the dress will round out at that point.
  • The bones are adjustable to make the width smaller when needed.

Hoop boned slips work best with a medium to full wedding gown. One tip... you can't have too much of a drop-waistline on the bodice of your gown, if you use a hoop slip that starts high on the hip.

Pros: Some like these slips because it's not up against their legs. Also, it's lighter than a crinoline, which tends to be heavy.

Cons: Some don't the slight sway you feel in a hoop slip when walking. Also, when you sit the boning doesn't bend easily and tends to jut out away from you.

Remember Scarlet O'Hara in "Gone With The Wind" and the school teacher in the movie "The King And I," when she set down the slip would kick the gown up. She had on a hoop slip. Of course, the boning used now is more bendable, but will kick out some.

To help tame the sway and the jutting out when you sit, it is best to wear this type of slip with a heavy dress that has a crinoline built-in.

Your Dress Silhouette Plays A Role

What you also need to determine is the final shape you want your gown to fall in. Some slips start to flare out at the hip level. Other slips start flaring from the waist and/or upper hip/abdomen level, giving more of a pouf from the top, like a bell shape.

If you want your dress not so puffy at the abdomen and hip level, but flare out more at the hem, then you need to buy a slip that falls in an A-shape, with ruffles on the bottom edge of a bridal petticoat.

Ball gown style wedding gowns flare anywhere from the natural waist to high hip area.

For Fit and Flare styles you need to note where your dress flares and make sure the flare on the slip starts below that point. The true mermaid usually starts flaring around the knee. The trumpet style flare out higher about the thigh area.

Wedding Slips -Tips Based On My Experiences!

Wedding slips come in all sizes, shapes and lengths. The waistline of bridal petticoat slips come in various forms:

  • drawstring 
  • velcro
  • spandex cinch waist
  • tubular spandex waist
  • hook closure
  • elastic waist.

The drawstring waist is the most adjustable. For the other closures, you need to measure your waist and order the size according to the measurement. The spandex waist is the least bulky under the gown.

The cinched waist style bridal slip is one the bridal shops favor. But during gown fittings I notice that brides tend to complain more about being hot when wearing this type of slip. It adds another thick layer over or under a longline strapless bra.

For some the extra fabric makes an already snug fitting gown, unbearable to wear. I prefer a slip that stops at the waist when using a longline strapless bra or corset.

Petite Brides: Some companies offer petite bridal petticoat slips or will make custom lengths for a small fee. It is good to take advantage of this feature if you have height issues. Otherwise, you will have to have your slip shortened which will add to your alteration's costs.

Tall Brides: If you are tall, 5' 10" or above, then the slip bottom will not hit your gown in the right place and cause it to flare at a higher point than it is supposed to. 

"The above information is based on many years of experience working with brides in my wedding dress alterations business. Hopefully... the tips and advice mentioned here will help you when picking out your bridal slip for your perfect wedding dress!"

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The Best Place To Buy A Bridal Petticoat?

When you buy your gown at the bridal salon, usually you will have help picking a slip for your gown.

But if you purchase your gown online or from another source, you have to figure this out yourself. There are online shops you can purchase a slip through.

You can also contact me for a slip consultation if you need help selecting a slip by filling out the form at the bottom of this page.

If you have been looking on the internet you have seen slips in various sizes and styles too numerous to mention. You may wonder...

  • How are you supposed to figure out which is best?
  • Are the cheaper slips with less netting from the offshore wholesalers going to do the job of the more pricier voluminous netted slips?

The answer to this is no! The slips with less net will not hold the shape you need for your dress the whole time you will wear it.

Some of the slips online are made with inferior netting that sometimes is so crumpled when you get it that you cannot fluff them out properly. And some have complained of a strange odor coming from them, something very undesirable. Remember the phrase... "You get what you pay for!"

So what should you do to figure out if you are making a good choice? It will be helpful to look at reviews of a slip you want to purchase to see how it worked for other customers. See if the company will allow you to return it doesn't work out.

Request Help With Choosing A Bridal Petticoat

If you would like me to assist you in making sure the petticoat you are thinking of purchasing is right for your dress... I'm available to help!

I do this by email and the fees range from $20 or $30.

  • If you have a slip in mind and just want to send pictures of your dress and of the slip to see if what you have picked out is a good match... then the fee is more in the $20 price range.
  • If I need to help you choose and locate a slip, the fee will be $30.

Most find the first option above works for them. So what do you do next? Fill out and submit the form below. I will send you a reply email.

  • Attach to my reply pictures of the dress ( it does help if you are in the dress but not necessary).
  • Submit pictures of the slips you are considering.
  • If you have a picture of a dress that shows how full you want your gown to look, that would be very helpful.
  • Take a picture of the underlining and /or slip that is attached underneath your wedding gown.
  • Note: Optional but very helpful. If you happen to have a measuring tape, then measure the underlining near your legs to get a circumference width. Use the instructions mentioned above on how to do this.

Doing as much of the above will help me determine the best slip for you. Once I get your email and attachments, I will send you a Paypal invoice for the amount that you will be charged. Once I receive that, I will send you the information you need.

If I feel I can't help you with your request or I find you really only need a quick tip, I will let you know and there will be no charge.

Looking forward to working with you!

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